If I were not already married, I would definitely have Jay do our wedding! He is thoughtful, faithful, gentle and patient. Too many couples leave the officiating to someone who has never done it before when they marry. Performing a wedding is more than just reading words - it is binding us to tradition, to one another, to the community at large, and to God. Trust Jay to help you do this with meaning and clarity. He is also a fabulous interviewer if you are lucky enough to be a guest on his podcast!